You’ve heard the old rhyme about sticks and stones, and words not wounding?
Our words do matter; to others, and to God!
God really cares about the words that we use and how we use them. How do we talk about this issue with our household? Join us for some discussion!
Start the conversation in the car, or around the family dinner table, or wherever your family is gathered together. Spread the questions out over several sessions. Ask these questions even if you missed the video showing!
Have some family time discussion…
- Do you find it easy or hard, to use kind words with someone you know well? What about with someone who is a stranger? With someone you dislike? Someone who is giving you a hard time?
- Have you ever heard the expression: “Kill them with kindness” — what do you suppose it means?
- Do you suppose that there is a difference between acting kindly and true kindness that comes from the heart? How would the two look different?
- The Bible tells us that our words are important to God. Why do you suppose God really cares about what we say?
Jesus taught that “A person’s mouth says everything that is in their heart” (Luke 6:45). What we say reflects what is in our innermost selves. God loves us, so of course God would care about us. And, since God loves everyone, he cares about the effect our words could have on other people. What we say to others matters!
- The Bible has lots to say about how we should use our words. Take turns looking up a verse and talking about what it means to you: Luke 6:45, Proverbs 15:1, Proverbs 15:4, Proverbs 16:24, Psalm 19:14, and Ephesians 4:29.
- Several of these verses were from the book of Proverbs. Proverbs is a book full of short instructions on living wisely. Watch this short video about Proverbs. (If reading this in an email, you can watch this video on YouTube.)
In class on Sunday we played a version of Chutes and Ladders. If your child didn’t bring home a game board, get two here. (This will download a Word doc to your downloads folder. Print it in “Landscape.”)
Play this game at home. Use small items as game pieces and toss a die to play a round, or two.
Have fun while practicing using kind words.
We hope you’ll continue the learning at home! Be sure to notice kind word usage. (Respond by saying: “I notice you are using healthy words!”)
Note: This post refers to a video watched during our Summer Sunday school: # 14 “How Do We Show Respect to God Through Our Words?” from Clive & Ian’s Wonder-Blimp of Knowledge.