This weekend we’ll get to watch our Youth lead us in worship. Youth Worship is a spring tradition! It’s alway lively! How can it not be, when worship is led by gobs of 7th-12th graders!
Youth Worship always has a theme to it. This year’s subject is Grace.
Help your kids to get more out of this worship by talking about the concept of grace ahead of time. (And debriefing about it afterwards.) What is grace?
Grace is someone saying: “I love you anyway.”
Ask your child(ren) if they could say “I love you anyway” in response to some of these situations:
- When someone doesn’t want to play with me.
- When someone uses something of mine without asking, and then breaks it.
- When people laugh at me when I make a mistake.
- When someone gets me in trouble for something I didn’t do.
It is hard isn’t it!
This is what God’s grace is; God saying, “Even though you messed up, I love you anyway. It is a gift from me to you. There is nothing you can do to pay me back.”
Want another way to teach about grace? Use a popular storybook.
This story starts off…
Once there was a little bunny who wanted to run away.
So he said to his mother, “I am running away.”
“If you run away,” said his mother, “I will run after you. For you are my little bunny.”
This bunny invents all kinds of scenarios where he runs away from his mother. But, no matter what, his mother assures him that she will run right after him.
It’s just like that with us and God.
How have you noticed God loving you no matter what?
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The Wow Moms group (Women of Wonder, Moments of Mission) at FUMC, has just started reading and discussing the book The Blessings of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children by clinical psychologist Dr. Wendy Mogel.
This book chronicles the author’s discovery that her religious roots provided helpful axioms for her doubts and anxieties as a parent. In exploring ancient Jewish texts, including the Talmud and the Torah, she recognized venerable wisdom that could be applied to child-raising situations faced by all parents. She has laid out for us a road map for raising self-reliant, respectful and confident kids.
I have found her book fascinating! There was a lot of meat in chapter one of this book (to which our attention was attuned for this week’s meeting). From Mogel’s story of a return to her Jewish roots…
Something had been stirred in me, but I didn’t know what it could be.
To how we as parents place ourselves in a trap, all in the name of good intentions…
Determined to give their children everything they needed to become ‘winners’ in this highly competitive culture, they missed out on God’s most sacred gift to us: the power and holiness of the present moment and of each child’s individuality.
Quotes from the book.
It was this last point that our discussion focused on: Helping our children realize their God-given, inherent potential. We concluded that recognizing and encouraging our children’s personality, character and temperament, was important. Our leader, Shannan instructed us to take some time to jot down things we notice over the next few weeks. “Every child is so different, and the more we understand who they are, the better we can parent them.”
True words. Might I add to that?
Blessing your child to reinforce their character.
Here are some examples…
- Is your child naturally exuberant? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… May God lead you to share your enthusiasm for life!
- Is your child sensitive and quiet? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… God has given you the special job of noticing the good in every situation.
- Is your child exhibit a “know-it-all” attitude? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… May God lead you to share your knowledge with others.
What other blessings apply to your children? Share your thoughts!
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