As the sun rises, are you ready for the start of a New Year? Are all-systems-go in the annual building of resolutions? How about just one more easy habit to take on for 2017 – one that I guarantee will generate good-feelings in your child.
AND, this intention only takes about 30 seconds. And, it’s flexible: it fits into your morning, or your evening routines, or whenever. What could be better!
What is this simple practice?
Bless your children.
Blessings are simply saying good things to your kids, on behalf of God. It’s giving them a daily stamp of approval! Like swearing on a Bible, you state truthful words; language your children desperately need to hear.
Easy instructions: Get started today! Trace with your finger, the sign of the cross either on their forehead or on their hand, while saying their name and something up-lifting about the new year ahead. Try this…
You are a very special person, created by God to do good in the world. May you eagerly approach the New Year, open to change and excited by new beginnings.
Tomorrow, either repeat the same words or use something else.
Want to know a secret?
You can even use these affirming words to bless yourself!
(I’m thinking that I’ll start off the new year doing just that.)
Whatever words you use, start an easy, new habit and bless your child every day.
A sunrise over Lake Superior by Sharon Mollerus, who licensed this photo on Flickr under a Creative Commons License.
Have you ever said to yourself, “I can’t do that, I’m not ____ enough.”
(Enter your word of choice: smart enough, or experienced enough, or perhaps brave enough?)
In our current Rotation on the story of Esther, I imagine that Esther herself wasn’t so keen about doing what her wise cousin Mordecai was suggesting:
Go to the king and beg for mercy (Esther 4:8).
Surely Mordecai knew that in the kingdom of Xerxes, one didn’t just pop in to see the king without an invitation! No, no, no! That would result in certain death! Yet Esther takes that heroic, risky step.
Wow. She was brave.
But wait a minute. Esther was just an ordinary girl. Esther didn’t seem bold or courageous. Sure, she was just caught up in a strange series of events that led her to queenly status, but that was just fate. (Or was it?)
Once again. Another example: God chooses ordinary people to do his work.
We see this as a pattern in the Bible, look at all those humdrum humans carrying out amazing achievements: There are the disciples (including obscure fishermen, chosen to be Jesus’ students), and David (a lowly shepherd-boy chosen as king), and Mary (a simple, young girl chosen to birth God’s son)…
And then there’s you.
That’s right, you!
God can do anything you know–far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us (Ephesians 3:20).
How can you (and your family members) believe this?
It helps to have spoken reminders, both in your self-talk and in your speech to others.
Use words of expectation; expecting only good to come from you.
Offer a blessing to yourself and to those around you:
God envisions you as worthwhile.
Live this day fully aware of your potential.
Go out with courage! Confident of your value to God.
God is making a difference through you.
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Satisfy your curiosity about why you should bless your child.
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Cautious boy by Devon D’Ewart, who licensed this photo on Flickr under a Creative Commons License.
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