Psalm 23 – Should it be memorized?

Did you learn Psalm 23 as a child? I don’t remember how old I was when I learned it; I might have been a teenager. All I know is that it sure is hard for me to learn Bible verses at my age! I wish I’d learned a lot more of them when I had masterly memorizing skills.

Should our kids be encouraged to learn Bible verses?

A multiplication facts practice toolIn today’s educational settings is memorization still taught? Why should we memorize a Bible verse, let alone a whole chapter’s worth; we can just look it up on our ipod/ipad/smart phone, right?

In a dire moment would you take the time to look it up?

The key is to have readily accessible the words that can steel us in times of trouble. The only way to do that is to put God’s word into long-term-readily-available-brain-storage, often known as “learning it by heart.” (Call it memorization if you must, but maybe not in front of your kids.)

Hints for memory work with kids:

  • Repeat it. Have your child work on a memory task for only 5 minutes at a time. Repeat every day, always reviewing what was learned in the past before adding something new.
  • Tie it. Tie your memory work to a certain event—while waiting for dinner, or while in the car.
  • Write it. Ask your child to make a set of flash cards for reviewing verses. If you have a kinesthetic learner (one for whom learning takes place by doing a physical activity as opposed to listening) repeatedly writing out of a verse may be helpful.Bible Memory App for Kids
  • Type it. If you let your child use phone apps here’s a great one: The Bible Memory App for Kids. I use the adult version. I’m up to 30 verses memorized! (Hmmm, maybe my memory skills aren’t as bad as I thought!
  • Sing it. Make up a tune or use a well-known tune.
  • A sketch of a sheepDraw it. Encourage children to draw pictures that represent a verse.
  • Dramatize it. Enact being a shepherd or walking through a dark valley or an overflowing cup. I can see it!
  • Game it. Write out the verses on slips of paper then cut the slips in half. Play a matching game to see who can fit two strips together.

What other ideas do you have?

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A Blessing: Go with God

One of the unfortunate things about parenting is that feedback on our techniques takes years to show results! We have to place our trust in God.

Blessing your child may not give you instant “results” but it is powerful medicine for your child.

Start simple.

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As your child leaves for school in the morning, say their name and…

' Go with God!

What do you say as your kids leave the house?


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A Blessing: Choose Joy

It is a passion of mine: once a week I encourage you to bless your child(ren) and to offer you a blessing that you can try out with your kids.

The word “blessing” means speaking well, or saying good things of someone. It comes from the Latin word benedicere or benediction. Blessing your children can, over time, only lead to positive outcomes. Your words (really, just simple words) communicate your child’s high value to God, and to you. A blessing gives kids a vision of what they can accomplish and who they can become. Hearing blessings can cause them to think about their choices.

There is also another meaning of the word blessing: when someone is a blessing to others; when someone bestows good of any kind upon someone. Sara Frankl, an internet friend, was a blessing to many people. Sara was a blessing to me, for she reminded me to always choose joy in all circumstances.

So, in honor of Sara, here is your blessing for this week… Say your child’s name and…

May you take every opportunity to choose joy.

Why do I mention Sara? Over the last few years Sara has suffered from a couple of different diseases which kept her indoors and in constant, intense pain.

Yet Sara chose joy!

For example, Sara has said

I am in pain, sick, frail, homebound, bedbound, without great possibility or potential in my future.

In all of that, I am whole. I am complete. I am exactly what God made me to be in the exact time He created me to be it.

Despite her circumstances, Sara always said, “Yes” to God. She made a conscious choice to choose to see God always at work in her life. Sara Frankl died on Saturday, Sept. 24, 2011 surrounded by family and friends. She was 38 years old. She is now pain-free in heaven. Dancing and singing.

I will miss your inspiring words Sara. May I choose to look always for joy. May I be so bold as to offer my words, in hopes of nourishing others on the path of growing their children to be disciples of Christ.


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A Blessing: Support Your Child’s Character

The cover of the book, The Blessings of a Skinned Knee

The Wow Moms group (Women of Wonder, Moments of Mission) at FUMC, has just started reading and discussing the book The Blessings of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children by clinical psychologist Dr. Wendy Mogel.

This book chronicles the author’s discovery that her religious roots provided helpful axioms for her doubts and anxieties as a parent. In exploring ancient Jewish texts, including the Talmud and the Torah, she recognized venerable wisdom that could be applied to child-raising situations faced by all parents. She has laid out for us a road map for raising self-reliant, respectful and confident kids.

I have found her book fascinating! There was a lot of meat in chapter one of this book (to which our attention was attuned for this week’s meeting). From Mogel’s story of a return to her Jewish roots…

Something had been stirred in me, but I didn’t know what it could be.

To how we as parents place ourselves in a trap, all in the name of good intentions…

Determined to give their children everything they needed to become ‘winners’ in this highly competitive culture, they missed out on God’s most sacred gift to us: the power and holiness of the present moment and of each child’s individuality.

Quotes from the book.

It was this last point that our discussion focused on: Helping our children realize their God-given, inherent potential. We concluded that recognizing and encouraging our children’s personality, character and temperament, was important. Our leader, Shannan instructed us to take some time to jot down things we notice over the next few weeks. “Every child is so different, and the more we understand who they are, the better we can parent them.”

True words. Might I add to that?

Blessing your child to reinforce their character.

Here are some examples…

  • Is your child naturally exuberant? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… May God lead you to share your enthusiasm for life!
  • Is your child sensitive and quiet? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… God has given you the special job of noticing the good in every situation.
  • Is your child exhibit a “know-it-all” attitude? Give them this blessing: Say their name and… May God lead you to share your knowledge with others.

What other blessings apply to your children? Share your thoughts!


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Is God’s name Art?

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Imagine a leader with a bunch of kids, and the conversation goes like this:

Leader: Hello everybody, I’d like to read to you the world’s most famous prayer, the Lord’s Prayer. Does anybody know how it begins? (pause)
Yes, that’s right, we start by praying the words: Our Father who art in heaven.
Child: Excuse, me, excuse me.
Leader: Yes?
Child: Who is Art? Is God’s name Art? I never heard God called Art before.

Okay, so that was just a hypothetical situation but when you think about it, just what does the Lord’s Prayer mean to kids? Take a look at the Lord’s Prayer with your kids, a line at a time. Read a line and ask your kids what it means. Listen to their replies. (They might have a thing or two to teach us adults!)
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Our Father, who art in heaven,

  • “Art” in this case means “is.” Our Father, who is in heaven.
  • We can think of God as someone as close to us as a loving parent.
  • Addressing God as a father would have been radically different for the followers of Jesus. To them God was grand and majestic… and intimidating and fearsome! To call God something chummy like “father” – this was new!
  • God as our father makes us all a part of God’s family. What a great, big wonderful family!
  • Even though God is in heaven, he hears you and wants to talk with you.

hallowed be thy name.

  • Hallowed means holy.
  • By calling God’s name holy, we acknowledge God’s greatness.
  • Our great and Holy God wants to have a close relationship with us! Amazing!

Thy Kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

  • “Thy” is a fancy way of saying “your.”
  • “Will” refers to the plans that God wants to have happen.
  • This line is like saying: God, may things here on earth be just like they are in heaven. May things be run according to God’s standards — peaceful and free from unfair treatment of anyone.
  • Because God is after all, God, he can cause his will to be done. So why ask for this? It is an invitation for us to participate in making sure that God’s plan happens.

Give us this day our daily bread.

  • This is asking God for what we need on a daily basis. (Which is different than what we want!)
  • It is asking for the necessities of life, not just food.
  • God knows what we need. Why should we have to ask? It reminds us of our need for God and that we can trust God.
  • We live in a world where the focus is on being self-sufficient (taking care of yourself). Yet God wants us to depend on him for daily needs.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

  • Trespasses, sins, debts… all mean the same – things we do wrong. Things we do that separate us from God.
  • Forgiving someone can be hard because forgiving fells like it makes an act seem less serious. But when you are forgiving, it is like saying: what you did was wrong but I am giving you a second chance. There is acknowledgment that what was done was wrong.
  • Nursing the grudges of something that has hurt us wastes our energy. Forgiving allows us to put the past behind us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

  • Protect us from doing things that would harm ourselves or other people.
  • God provides us our “daily bread” however we are completely free to make choices about what we do with it. This temptation comes from our own doing.

For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever.

  • You God, are awesome!

Amen.

  • Amen means “so be it.”


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A Blessing for scaredy cats?

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Is the concept of blessing your child, scary?

I can’t do that. My child will think I’m crazy.

What if my child blows off my words?

What if I say the wrong thing?

How about if you think of a blessing as praying for someone? That’s essentially what a blessing is, a personal prayer said out loud that gives your child a sense of being loved and accepted. Try this blessing: Say your child’s name and…

God has made you perfect just the way you are.

Think about what hearing those words will mean to your child!
I guess the cat is out of the bag on this one. (grin)


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A Blessing: Seeing God in Laughter

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Everyone knows that laughter is good medicine. Laughter is also a gift from God. In the Bible, upon the birth of a son at an impossibly old age Sarah declared: “God has brought me laughter. All who hear about this will laugh with me” (Genesis 21:6).

Spend time every day laughing with your child(ren); it blesses them with good health and good memories.

After a bellyful of laughter, try out this blessing:

Today may you see God in your laughter and in your joy.

Laughing kids

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A Blessing for your child’s teacher

I’ve discovered that blessing other people, anonymously, is a quiet way of spreading God’s love. I have been blessing people I pass by on the street or in the grocery store. Usually it’s just “Lord, bless that person.” I have no idea what sort of outcome it has for the individuals; it just seems like the right thing to do.

Next week school starts in our area. Why not bless your child’s teacher?

a teacher leads a group of students

Sit down with your child and tell them you would like to send God’s blessing upon their teacher(s). Try something like…

May __your child’s name__ teacher(s) bring to their classroom an open mind; ready to learn with their students. May they be full of energy, compassionate, and kind. May they excel at sharing a love of learning. May God watch over them as they prepare for the start of school.

Your child may not even be yet aware of their teacher’s name. But God knows!


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