Let one thing lead to another?

Do you have plans for the 4th of July – perhaps a picnic or watching a parade or some fireworks?

Doing these sorts of things is almost required! They are rituals!

Fireworks

Rituals and traditions are repeated activities that help family members develop a sense of belonging.

 
How about some traditions that help your kids realize they belong to God’s family? Try some of these:

  • How about attending Communion worship? (If you’re in the area, join us at FUMC. Communion is held on the first Sunday of every month). Being a part of God’s family involves worshipping God together.
  • Plan a time to gather together (frequently!) and read the Bible. Might I suggest looking here for our current study for kids? Being part of God’s family involves “knowing” God. We can know God by reading the Bible.
  • Choose a service project (perhaps once a month!) View a list of potential projects here. Being part of God’s family involves loving and serving God and others.
  • Once a week practice a time of Sabbath. (It doesn’t have to be on Sunday). Here’s a way to get started: Surrender one heavily used device and let it rest. (The TV? A cell phone? A computer?) Being part of God’s family involves listening for God.
  • Practice a time of thankful prayers. (For ideas see here.) Being part of God’s family involves talking to God.
  • Committ to learning a verse of scripture. How about John 3:16-17. Being part of God’s family involves living with God’s word in our hearts.
What rituals do you practice in your family?


Photo credits:
Fireworks by bayasaa who licensed this photo under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.

Are you seeing ads? They are not from me! They are placed by WordPress, who otherwise offers a free platform from which to share lots of good-ness. If you see an inappropriate ad, please report it to support@wordpress.com. Include the URL, the date/time the ad appeared, and a screenshot of the ad.

A Blessing – Holy Potential

Giving your child a blessing at the same time everyday – as they head out the door, for example – tunes them in to listening to your words. Wouldn’t it be great if they could go into their day looking for the wonder of God’s presence?

A child finds wonder when given a camera

Here’s a blessing to use. Say your child’s name and…

May you be aware of the Holy potential of your day.

Ask them to report back at the dinner table!

For more blessings to try out click here.
Curious about the function of blessings? Click here .


Photo credits: For info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email) click here.
Boy engrossed in life by Woodleywonderworks who licensed this photo on Flickr under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.

Giving abundantly because we trust in abundance

Kids participating with the Cool Disciples have been learning this month, about giving. They’ve learned how our offerings can be more than a monetary gift; they’ve had two chances to work at it during Sunday’s Cool! One week they helped make decorations that will be used for Vacation Bible Camp in July. Last week they made cookies to share with Alpha House. Each week they’ve listened to the story of a poor widow giving all that she had (in Mark 12:41-44). What was Jesus trying to say about this widow’s extravagant gift?

This woman was giving all that she had out of trust that God would supply all of her needs.

God is good; all the time. This is something we know inherently. But do we live as though we believe it?

Two coins

How about talking about it with your family! Gather a Bible and a fist full of coins (the more the merrier). First read the story together in Mark 12:41-44. Then gather everyone around the computer and scroll down only far enough to expose a speech bubble and its question.

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleWhy do you suppose Jesus was watching people give their offerings?

No right or wrong answer to this one. Did you know the subject Jesus taught the most about was money? It’s almost as if Jesus were sitting there, waiting for a teachable moment!
Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleThe teachable moment arrives when a widow gives her offering. What is a widow?

A widow is a woman whose husband has died. Most women in Jesus’ day didn’t work. Widows had to be taken care of by their family. It is likely that this woman didn’t have anyone to support her as, Jesus seemed to know that she was poor.

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubble Jesus had watched rich people drop lots of coins into the offering box. (Since all money was coins it would have made a lot of noise going in!) Yet Jesus said that the poor widow had put in more than all the others! How can her gift be larger than what the richer people gave?

Here’s where your coins come into play. It’s probably not a significant pile of cash, but let’s just say: you are rich! Look at all the money you have! You’ve got plenty!

Pick up two coins. Since you are rich do you suppose you would notice if you had two coins less? (Probably not.)

Hold just the two coins and put the other coins away. Now you are poor! You have only two coins! What happens if you give away these two coins?

This is what Jesus meant; the rich people gave a lot because they could afford to do so; they had plenty left over. But the widow gave even though she was poor. She put in everything she had. She gave all she had to live on!

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleIf the widow gave everything, where did she expect her next meal to come from?

The women had the chance to give a gift. She gave all she had, trusting that God would take care of her!

Jesus is not saying we have to give everything we have. He is saying that the amount of the gift isn’t really important but the attitude in which a gift is given is important. Jesus wants us to trust God to provide for our needs! Let me tell you: It’s not easy trusting God like that! But you know what? It makes me giddy when I do and he provides! (Ask me about it.)

When we begin to share abundantly, then we make room in our lives for God to bless us abundantly.

What can help you to live as though you believe in God’s abundance?

— Carol


Photo credits: Click here for info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email).
Other photo: from my archives.

A Blessing – Where God’s Love Leads Us

Why should you give your kids a blessing every day?

When we receive a blessing, it is a reminder that we are special; that God needs us. Try this one. Say your child’s name and…

May God’s love inspire you to offer love and compassion to others.

Two girls hug


What is a Blessing and why should I be doing this? Find out here.

Want other blessings to try out? Check here.


Photo credits: Click here for info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email).
Two girls by Torrey Wiley who licensed this photo under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.

Time, talent or treasures

It’s a familiar part of the worship service.

collection plate

The Giving of Our Tithes and Gifts to God

Also known as “the Offering” or “the Collection.” At FUMC there is beautiful music to accompany this portion of worship. In the summer time it’s usually a soloist (or two or three) contributing their symphonious instrumental sounds. And hey! They are giving a gift to God!

That’s the point of our Rotation this month about the Widow’s Offering – to define an “offering” as gifts given to God and to discover that offerings can be time, talents, or money.

Ready for some family discussion about our story?

Gather kids around the computer and scroll down only far enough to expose a speech bubble and its question…

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleWhat happens in this story?

Read together Mark 12:41-44.
Did you catch all of the details? It’s a short story isn’t it!

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleWhat was Jesus doing?

Jesus was sitting in the Temple, the place where Jewish people came to worship. He was watching people give their offerings.

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleWhat is an offering?

Offerings are gifts to God. Right off the bat we think of an offering as money; it’s what we put into the plate that gets passed around at church. Money is an important part of what we give in our offerings but our gifts can be more than just money!

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleWhat are other examples of giving gifts to God?

There are many ways that people give gifts to God! An offering can be our time and our talents as well as our money. In church when we receive the offering, there are musicians or singers who share their gifts with us. The ushers are giving their time and leadership to collect the money we raise for God’s use. Other people oversee the use of the money that is collected. People who are teaching Sunday Cool classes, people singing in the choir, those who take turns in the nursery – all of these people are making a gift of themselves to God!

Of course this is just the start of the list; then there are people who give of themselves outside of the worship service.

kids at work on Appalachia mission trip Youth on Kenya trip Fish Fri

Kids on a Mission trip to Appalachia. Youth on a Kenya Mission trip assisting with the school’s feeding program. Kids & adults in the kitchen during a Fish Fri event.

Time Out. Talk about…A speech bubbleBrainstorm ways that kids can give gifts to God.

For a list of activities where kids can get involved in offering their time see this list for summer 2011. (Updated: sorry, this list is no longer available.)


Photo credits:
Collection plate by rubber bullets, who licensed his/her photos under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.
Mission trip photos by various FUMC church members, used by permission.

Are you seeing ads? They are not from me! They are placed by WordPress, who otherwise offers a free platform from which to share lots of good-ness. If you see an inappropriate ad, please report it to support@wordpress.com. Include the URL, the date/time the ad appeared, and a screenshot of the ad.

A Weekly Blessing – you are precious

A father and son hold hands

You love your children, right?

(Well, okay. Most of the time.)

Consider giving your child a blessing as a way of showing – and saying – your love. Try out this one: Say your child’s name and…

God calls you precious;
and so do I.

How is it going with blessing your children? What have you found has helped you to bless your kids? Or, what is holding you back? I’d love to hear your comments!

— Carol

+++++++++++


For a list of other blessings in this series click here.

Photo credits: Click here for info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email).
Other photo: Holding hands by Daniel Rothamel on Flickr, who licensed this photo under Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.

Wednesday’s Weekly Blessing

Saying your blessings before bedtime?

A child sleeps

How about saying this one as you put your child to bed…
Say your child’s name and…

May God lead you from busyness, to stillness and rest.

+++++++++++

What is a blessing and why should I be using them? Click here to find out.
Want other blessings to try out? Click here.


Photo credits: Click here for info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email).
Sleeping child by Tamaki Sono, who licensed this photo under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.

Wednesday’s Weekly Blessing

A child holds a seedling
I love that spring ushers in a season of new growth. Take some time to ponder with your children over God’s wonderous creation. Plant a few seeds or pop some purchased seedlings into freshly dug scoops of soil.

To tie your efforts to an apt Blessing, say your child’s name and…

May God’s love take root, sprout, and grow fruitfully in your life.

+++++++++++

Curious about Blessings? Click here to find out more.
View other blessings here.


Photo credits: Click here for info on banner photo (not visible in readers or email).
Seedling photo from D Sharon Pruitt. who licensed his photo under: Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic.